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Sounds like you did a great job! And that the judge is fair ❤️

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Thank you! Not an easy job, but having a fair judge is an absolute game changer. I learned so much watching him. He managed to make a situation that could easily become a circus almost seem civilized.

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It is one of the hardest things in the world to remain silent while others are spouting lie about you. I get and have been there myself so I feel for you. Stay strong, and keep your chin up!

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Indeed it is! I didn't hold back with the facial expressions and may have laughed/scoffed out loud once or twice, but otherwise I tried to just focus and be as present as possible. It's definitely a practice in character. Thank you, I will! You too!

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Finally able to add you to my patreon monthly budget. Keep fighting.

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Thank you, Matthew! Happy to hear it. Welcome to the community!

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It infuriates me that you’re having to go through this. In the almost 13 years I’ve known you, I’ve gotten to know you well, and you are the kindest, most compassionate person. The idea of you being a sex trafficker makes me want to simultaneously laugh and have someone committed. You know why. Sending you so many hugs.

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I know. It's horrendous. I truly wonder if the people in the complaint even know what they're accusing me of. I doubt any one of them could look me in the eye and say they believe I hurt anyone. And you're right, it is both comical and vile. Hugs back!

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Well said Nicki. I feel bad you have to deal with this but admire you for it. I have always appreciated your obsession with logic. It has given you the skill to communicate a perspective that few people have the strength or ability to survive the experience. Imagine how many people have been harmed and slandered without the emotional fortitude or skill to communicate it. You are helping the real victims you speak of that don't have a voice. Also, good job not getting sucked in to the fear! I continue to be impressed with the honor you demonstrate towards the people attacking you. Keep us posted. Keep writing. The TRUTH will prevail.

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Great post :)!

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